Dugger:
Handling the grape skins when loose is often discussed on the wine-making forums. A few years ago, the Winexpert rep (Tim V) recommended a kitchen tool called a chinois. I was running a Ferment on Premises at the time, and starting to make grape skin kits. I broke an Auto Siphon on the first one, so was looking for another choice.
Here's my current method. Sanitize an empty primary and the chinois. Place the chinois across the primary, and the primaries side-by-side. Using a s/s strainer, scoop the skins out of the wine and into the chinois. Don't overfill the chinois. Allow the wine to drip out, and encourage it by pressing with the spoon. Once the skins are drained, dump them in the compost (or garbage). Repeat until all skins have been processed. Pour the drippings back into the original primary. Now siphon to carboy.
Note the chinois is also useful for bags of oak or grape skins. Pull the bag out of the primary and place in the chinois over the primary. No need for a second primary this way.
My chinois looks sorta like the China Cap in the wiki article
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinoise_(utensil)
BTW, I have a small and a large chinois. When I bought them I had the choice of small or large holes. I chose small.
Hope this helps some of you.
Steve