Good on you for taking measurements. But let me help you help yourself
I believe you mean your current SG is at 1.035 and your starting gravity was at 1.128. Your abv is or never was 4.6 or 17.5, you had an approximate potential alcohol of that much but those numbers where never your abv.
If you took the differences between those ABV potentials you would get a rough estimate of your abv being at 12.9% abv.
The preferred method to express the progress of a fermentation is with Specific gravity. It is a much more precise method of charting and talking about the progress of a fermentation.
So using this equation
ABV = (Starting SG – Final SG) * 131
You get an abv of 12.18% ( Their are many different equations expressing the relationship between the SG drop and ABV)
You currently have a LOT of residual sugar in your wine. How long has the SG been at 1.035?
If you were to add a gallon of orange juice ( looks like you need about a gallon) it might help dilute down all that residual sugar as well as cool down your wine a bit.. But I am worried it could drop your ABV low enough so that it could spoil if you are not careful.
So anyways, its important to know.. how long have you been at 1.035 for?