Pam dont worry about "jiggling" them. This isn't going to hurt a darn thing right now. Lets get it started. Then we can worry about the other stuff.
Take about 1/4 cup of sugar in a cup of water. Heat it up, not boiling, get it warm. Stit until dissolved. If you are not confident with reading a hydrometer, we'll have to learn ya! And we will. One side tells you the temperature. one side tells you the "Potential alcohol by Volume", that is based on the sugar displacing the water, and I am NOT going to get into that right now. Lets get the "car" started first.
Take about a cup of water. I would use apple juice personally because I know it works. Did you read the thread I sent your way?
But take your 1 cup of apple juice and get it warm, not hot, or boiling. get it around 105F or whatever your yeast says on the back of the package.
Stick your hydrometer in there and watch the temperature, and I would hope you clean your hydrometer good first. Ifin You don't have one , and I sure hope you do, a regular old meat thermometer will work, please make sure you clean it first.
At the appropriate temperature sprinkle your yeast on top, NOT bread yeast! Allow it to set for 20 mins or so, it will be quite apparent when it gets to goin.
This is your starter. Keep it warm and put about a 1/4 cup of your wine in there. Give it an hour or so. (read the thread!) You will see, that starter is now growing from the sugars in the wine, wait an hour or so and add another half cup!, or so and let this "grow" for a bit longer maybe an hour and a half, you will see it growing, no need to cover it, just keep it warm.
By now it should be fizzing like crazy(your starter), but, your not done yet! Add another half of a cup of the wine, and let it grow for another hour. NOW, its really fizzing, still not done! Give it another half of a cup more of wine, and give it another hour.
NOW! Use a sterilized "stirring instrument", a spoon, LOL, stir your starter a bit and dump it in your wine, no need to stir it in, just pour it in. The yeast will find its way.
The most important thing is you want your wine "must" to be warm. 70-80F or so when you pour the starter in. In fact, just because, stir up the wine just a bit, not crazy stirring, just a bit. Do that now, you have 3 hours or so before your starter will be ready.
Pour the starter mix on it, no need to stir. leave it alone, don't stare at it! Wine can be self contious, it should go in a few hours. If it doesn't I may not be the one with the answers, but this has worked for me(read the thread link)
If you don't have any juice, use about an 1/8 cup of sugar DISSOLVED in 1 cup of water and add the yeast at about 100-105F, dont stir, just sprinkle on top.
Let us know how this goes.
I sure hope I can help, seems like I am the only one in here right now. I want to be proud to say this worked, I didn't make this up, it was taught to me by those who came before me.
Good Luck Honey,
Troy