I'm sorry if my post was offensive, and to be honest, no one here really ever scolds anyone, this is a real friendly forum.
I really enjoy helping anyone that I can.
Maybe we should all start over, I apologize, we all started out the same way, trust me. No one here can claim that they don't have anything to learn, we all learn new things all the time, when someone claims to know everything, it's time to stop taking advice from them.
In everyone's defense, some of the more experienced wine makers get a little tens when they hear that a new wine maker doesn't have a Hydrometer or doesn't bulk age, but it happens so much during the wine season that it gets to be very repetitive.
Once again, this is no excuse for scolding someone, you are correct. Stick around, these are good people here, I for one will put myself "in check" and start over to try to help you if you would like the help.
By the way, my name is Tom.