ok I suppose thats why theres no distillation involved (just to rid it of methanol, not the water) in beer making or wine making...because the methanol content is inconsiderable.
BUT, then if you drank say a glass of wine, and a glass of spirit with the methanol left in but water taken out (the same ethanol dose), logically the methanol content would be the same in proportion to the ethanol, just the extra water in the wine would change. apart from the fact that different fruits would produce different amounts of methanol but not by much, that only leaves the conclusion that its the extra water in wine that means its ok to drink.
Think of it this way,
You take 2 bottles of the same wine, drink one of them.
distill the other one to get rid of just the water, and drink that.
the fact that youve distilled one of them doesnt change the ratio of ethanol methanol
so why would it be safe to drink the wine?
"Everything is poison, it all depends on the dose."