Here is my advice
Never Wash Grapes!!!!
A cluster of wine grapes have the individual grapes packed tightly together. This is perfect for each cluster to hold water through capillary action. Simply drying the grapes will not remove this water which will serve to dilute the sugar, flavor, and acid that God had so lovingly provided.
further advice...
Make it a point to sort through your grapes instead of washing them. Remove or throw away any really bad clusters. A little white mildew or mold is not much of a concern provided you treat your must with the recommended amount of k-meta. If your grapes have a lot of rot on them, do not purchase them.