Well, I can't really tell you what really worked and which didn't but these are the ideas my husband and I came up with:
First we de-labeled all of the wines and placed a little card with the wine label and some information (vintage, kind, date bottled). It was a flip-over card, and each was right next to the bottle.
Secondly, we had little sheets of paper on the table for people to note their blends. Unfortunately, no one did this.
Thirdly, we showed what aging does to a wine by placing a 2003 and a 2004 and a 2005 apple wine. People were surprised at the difference.
Fourthly, we offered a lot of non-alcoholic beverages, but mostly water was drunk.
You also might want to look for a party-supply place. We had little Dixie cups for the wine. We tried to find see-thru ones, but couldn't. So if you want to show off your wines' clarity, I would suggest this.
Another suggestion I would make (I didn't do this) is if you have general information on how a wine is made. A short description of your own wines might add interest. For example, for my hibiscus wine, this might have been something interensting:
"Hibiscus spp. is a genus, one of many of the mallow family, each of which contains many species. The tart, refreshing taste of hibiscus flowers comes from the many acids found in this tropical plant. These acids also account for the long history of hibiscus as a healthful plant for smooth functioning. Hibiscus has a delightful flavor that is popular in foods & beverages throughout the world. Jams, jellies & teas are also made from this bright botanical."
For food we had saltines, cheese and ham cubes, chips and whatever else anyone brought. There was a lot of food left over and given back home.
Music? We had a good mix of 50's, 60's, 70's and 80's pop. No one complained - not even my dad.
Hope this helps to get you started.
Edited by: MedPretzel