Exposure to air in a properly topped up carboy is minimal and nothing to worry about. We all have to crack our carboys open on occasion for tasting, rackings, additions, testing, etc., no big deal unless you're digging in it every day and leaving it open for a long time or forget to replace the bung / airlock.
While it is fermenting it is producing co2, which will protect the wine. It is when it nears the end of primary fermentation that's you need to be mindful of o2 exposure. I am of the opinion that the exposure once a month for testing and topping and every 4 months for racking is not significant enough to to be damaging to the wine.