Dillybar,
It really doesn't have to do with my expectations, I am very open minded when it comes to Food, wine and beer, I realize that i will not like everything that I taste, but this has a very weird sweet, almost sour taste to the point that I first thought it was spoiled. I've smelled and tasted this on a few other kit wines, and that is what it might be, even as I used it for cooking, I thought that the dish that I used it in might be ruined until it cooked in and lost that weird taste and smell.
I've heard others say that they love it, God bless them, I'll keep a case for another 6 months to a year before I use it all for cooking, and I'll taste it, it might just need aging...a lot of aging.
To put it into perspective, I wouldn't give this wine as a gift, I wouldn't want my friends to think that this is the kind of wine that I make.