It is all a matter of taste and there are no set amounts to add per gallon. What is fairly standard is the simple syrup that many people use to back sweeten (2 parts sugar to 1 part water). If you are back sweetening with an f-pack or simple syrup, be sure to sorbate the wine first with 1/2 t of K-sorbate per gallon of wine. Then, measure the SG of the wine. If it is fully fermented to dry it should be in the low 0.990's. Depending on your desired level of sweetness, you can raise the SG with the syrup or f-pack. You will begin to detect a sweet taste at around SG 1.000. How high you go from there is up to you, but bench test with a small quantity first until you get to a taste you like and then scale it up to the full batch. One caution, err on the low side. You can always add more sweetener but it is much harder to subtract. Also, let the wine stay in the carboy for about a week at least after sweetening and before bottling to be sure you do not get re-fermentation. Good luck.