Mike.. it's ok..OK so sometime I am a jerk when trying to be funny, I'm sorry Etrusci. I am, most of time a nice guy, really ask my mom she will tell you. She has told every single women in town already so you could ask one of them if you prefer. Enjoy your wine.
I recommend starting with a lot of wine kits that you can drink early before starting kits that need age. A lot easier to age wine when it isn't all you have to drink